1 - What is there?
A reflex
Following a stimulation (stimulation genital or extra-genital intense erotic sensations), the brain sends a message that crosses the spine and causes a series of rhythmic contractions of the inner region of the first third of the vagina, the uterus and the anal region. Three muscle groups thus come into play: the elevator of the anus and the bulbo-cavernous muscles, the striated sphincter of the urethra and the constrictor of the vulva.
When?
Orgasm occurs at the end of the plateau phase, when the excitement is growing and that the sexual and muscular tension increases. The first third of the vagina swells and narrows the opening, two-thirds of the bottom of the vagina rounder. The clitoris will press against the pubic bone and labia minora become darker and thicker. If nothing disturbs the physiological process (telephone, baby crying ...), orgasm can occur. Women may also experience nocturnal orgasms, which do not necessarily take place during the dreams of a sexual nature.
Duration and intensity. The orgasm itself often lasts a few seconds: there may be 2 to 3 muscle, distant from one another less than a second. If all women go through the same phases, however the intensity of orgasm varies considerably from one woman to another ... and even from time to time with the same woman. At some pleasant sensations can be felt in the clitoris, and can extend to the whole pelvis. The muscle contractions can range from a simple palpitation of the genital area to a whole body tremor.
What can affect the intensity?
The factors playing on the intensity of orgasm is of a physiological (fatigue, stress) and / or psychological (mood, feelings for partner). For some, it's oral sex (fellatio or cunnilingus), which allows to achieve orgasms the nicest and most powerful. There may be 3 or 4 spasms, sometimes followed by small contractions spaced more ... especially if it continues to lick gently. For others, the most powerful orgasms are obtained by masturbation ... but they can also be very intense during sex, while men do not stop the stimulation of the clitoris during orgasm.
The telltale signs of orgasm.
During orgasm, changes may occur in the facial expressions. Women may also utter sounds involuntary chuckle, laughter, groans, screams ... if it does not make any noise, it can surely not help but gasp, pushing small sighs. It may also have the legs tremble, become weaker, or appear briefly disconnected: it has not lost consciousness, but focuses on those pleasant sensations associated with feelings of abandonment. Sometimes the whole body contracts with each spasm.
Immediately after the orgasm, redness may appear on the chest and shoulders ... for a brief moment. But the most telling sign is certainly the degree of sensitivity of the genitals.
Some figures. When is the first orgasm? For 23% of women, for 25 years to 90% before 35 years. One in two women think it is important to have an orgasm during sex. It is in 40 years that women are most happy. They are more likely to reach orgasm easily through improved sexual experience and good knowledge of their own body.
2 - The different types of orgasm
Clitoral or vaginal? The clitoris and vagina are two areas of stimulation that can cause orgasmic pleasure.
The clitoral orgasm is more acute. Through masturbation, women can be achieved in minutes. The stimulation of the clitoris tends to produce more intense orgasms. The sensation felt is very powerful. This orgasm involves the pelvic and abdominal muscles.
The vaginal orgasm is, according to Freud, orgasm "adult education", (as opposed to clitoral orgasm, and lower infant "). Comme les parois internes du vagin ont des terminaisons nerveuses, un tiers des femmes affirment qu'elles peuvent avoir un orgasme de cette façon. The stimulation of G could lead to a profound orgasm. Sensations of heat waves flood the entire body.
For some women, ejaculation orgasm that causes the contractions of the vagina are caused by prostaglandin, a substance in semen.
Clitoral and vaginal!
It seems that there is no orgasm in fact strictly clitoral. But vaginal stimulation alone is not enough for most women, to produce an orgasm. A woman is clitoral or vaginal, but both. According to Masters and Johnson, there is only one type of orgasm caused by stimulation of the clitoris and resulting in contractions of the vagina. For others, it should be a clitoral orgasm beforehand to achieve a vaginal orgasm. It is the prolonged stimulation of the clitoris which can provoke contractions of the vaginal platform. This reflex causes vaginal clitoris orgasm superficial. Orgasm deeply resulting in regular uterine contractions, and a feeling of relaxation. The two types of orgasms can occur simultaneously or in succession.
The multiple orgasms.
If the stimulation and sexual interest are extended by orgasm, some women (one in ten) have a series of orgasms one after another. Since women take longer to achieve orgasm, they remain longer in the plateau phase, and can back it. Unlike men, they have no refractory period and can therefore prolong the pleasure much longer. They can have 5, 10 or 20 orgasms during one sexual intercourse. But multiple orgasms are not related to sexual satisfaction. Have should not be an end in itself: in fact, many women find that stimulation of the genitals after orgasm is not pleasant or painful.
3 - ideas about orgasm
This is not the length of the penetration that allows the woman to achieve orgasm. Moreover, the penetration is not the only form of sexuality ... and it is often insufficient to cause orgasm alone. Three out of four women need a direct stimulation of their clitoris fondling by mouth or by masturbation, to have an orgasm. Some women need stimulation of the breasts: it increases the production of the hormone oxytocin, which in turn causes the muscle contraction of the uterus.
Do not reach orgasm every time you have sex is not synonymous with failure. 40% of women who fail to orgasm in each report will say, however, quite satisfied with their sexuality. Sexual satisfaction of a woman does not depend on the number of orgasms. The multiple orgasms, simultaneous orgasms and should not be the goal. The control and the will to prevent synchros unlike you abandon pleasure. Women can have an orgasm without experiencing pleasure.
Remember that orgasm makes the skin radiant, improves the tone of the whole body, and also has positive effects on the cardiovascular system.
The intensity of orgasm is obviously not proportional to the moans and gestures that accompany it.
One last scoop: The orgasm would have a more utilitarian function than just fun. A woman had a desire to have an orgasm every time your body decides that it can maximize its chances of fertilization. Schopenhauer would have said trick here. Sexuality aiming only to pass on our genetic capital. Moreover, women have an orgasm expel sperm in less than a half-hour after insemination. Sperm are more likely to move from the vagina to the cervical canal and uterus.
A reflex
Following a stimulation (stimulation genital or extra-genital intense erotic sensations), the brain sends a message that crosses the spine and causes a series of rhythmic contractions of the inner region of the first third of the vagina, the uterus and the anal region. Three muscle groups thus come into play: the elevator of the anus and the bulbo-cavernous muscles, the striated sphincter of the urethra and the constrictor of the vulva.
When?
Orgasm occurs at the end of the plateau phase, when the excitement is growing and that the sexual and muscular tension increases. The first third of the vagina swells and narrows the opening, two-thirds of the bottom of the vagina rounder. The clitoris will press against the pubic bone and labia minora become darker and thicker. If nothing disturbs the physiological process (telephone, baby crying ...), orgasm can occur. Women may also experience nocturnal orgasms, which do not necessarily take place during the dreams of a sexual nature.
Duration and intensity. The orgasm itself often lasts a few seconds: there may be 2 to 3 muscle, distant from one another less than a second. If all women go through the same phases, however the intensity of orgasm varies considerably from one woman to another ... and even from time to time with the same woman. At some pleasant sensations can be felt in the clitoris, and can extend to the whole pelvis. The muscle contractions can range from a simple palpitation of the genital area to a whole body tremor.
What can affect the intensity?
The factors playing on the intensity of orgasm is of a physiological (fatigue, stress) and / or psychological (mood, feelings for partner). For some, it's oral sex (fellatio or cunnilingus), which allows to achieve orgasms the nicest and most powerful. There may be 3 or 4 spasms, sometimes followed by small contractions spaced more ... especially if it continues to lick gently. For others, the most powerful orgasms are obtained by masturbation ... but they can also be very intense during sex, while men do not stop the stimulation of the clitoris during orgasm.
The telltale signs of orgasm.
During orgasm, changes may occur in the facial expressions. Women may also utter sounds involuntary chuckle, laughter, groans, screams ... if it does not make any noise, it can surely not help but gasp, pushing small sighs. It may also have the legs tremble, become weaker, or appear briefly disconnected: it has not lost consciousness, but focuses on those pleasant sensations associated with feelings of abandonment. Sometimes the whole body contracts with each spasm.
Immediately after the orgasm, redness may appear on the chest and shoulders ... for a brief moment. But the most telling sign is certainly the degree of sensitivity of the genitals.
Some figures. When is the first orgasm? For 23% of women, for 25 years to 90% before 35 years. One in two women think it is important to have an orgasm during sex. It is in 40 years that women are most happy. They are more likely to reach orgasm easily through improved sexual experience and good knowledge of their own body.
2 - The different types of orgasm
Clitoral or vaginal? The clitoris and vagina are two areas of stimulation that can cause orgasmic pleasure.
The clitoral orgasm is more acute. Through masturbation, women can be achieved in minutes. The stimulation of the clitoris tends to produce more intense orgasms. The sensation felt is very powerful. This orgasm involves the pelvic and abdominal muscles.
The vaginal orgasm is, according to Freud, orgasm "adult education", (as opposed to clitoral orgasm, and lower infant "). Comme les parois internes du vagin ont des terminaisons nerveuses, un tiers des femmes affirment qu'elles peuvent avoir un orgasme de cette façon. The stimulation of G could lead to a profound orgasm. Sensations of heat waves flood the entire body.
For some women, ejaculation orgasm that causes the contractions of the vagina are caused by prostaglandin, a substance in semen.
Clitoral and vaginal!
It seems that there is no orgasm in fact strictly clitoral. But vaginal stimulation alone is not enough for most women, to produce an orgasm. A woman is clitoral or vaginal, but both. According to Masters and Johnson, there is only one type of orgasm caused by stimulation of the clitoris and resulting in contractions of the vagina. For others, it should be a clitoral orgasm beforehand to achieve a vaginal orgasm. It is the prolonged stimulation of the clitoris which can provoke contractions of the vaginal platform. This reflex causes vaginal clitoris orgasm superficial. Orgasm deeply resulting in regular uterine contractions, and a feeling of relaxation. The two types of orgasms can occur simultaneously or in succession.
The multiple orgasms.
If the stimulation and sexual interest are extended by orgasm, some women (one in ten) have a series of orgasms one after another. Since women take longer to achieve orgasm, they remain longer in the plateau phase, and can back it. Unlike men, they have no refractory period and can therefore prolong the pleasure much longer. They can have 5, 10 or 20 orgasms during one sexual intercourse. But multiple orgasms are not related to sexual satisfaction. Have should not be an end in itself: in fact, many women find that stimulation of the genitals after orgasm is not pleasant or painful.
3 - ideas about orgasm
This is not the length of the penetration that allows the woman to achieve orgasm. Moreover, the penetration is not the only form of sexuality ... and it is often insufficient to cause orgasm alone. Three out of four women need a direct stimulation of their clitoris fondling by mouth or by masturbation, to have an orgasm. Some women need stimulation of the breasts: it increases the production of the hormone oxytocin, which in turn causes the muscle contraction of the uterus.
Do not reach orgasm every time you have sex is not synonymous with failure. 40% of women who fail to orgasm in each report will say, however, quite satisfied with their sexuality. Sexual satisfaction of a woman does not depend on the number of orgasms. The multiple orgasms, simultaneous orgasms and should not be the goal. The control and the will to prevent synchros unlike you abandon pleasure. Women can have an orgasm without experiencing pleasure.
Remember that orgasm makes the skin radiant, improves the tone of the whole body, and also has positive effects on the cardiovascular system.
The intensity of orgasm is obviously not proportional to the moans and gestures that accompany it.
One last scoop: The orgasm would have a more utilitarian function than just fun. A woman had a desire to have an orgasm every time your body decides that it can maximize its chances of fertilization. Schopenhauer would have said trick here. Sexuality aiming only to pass on our genetic capital. Moreover, women have an orgasm expel sperm in less than a half-hour after insemination. Sperm are more likely to move from the vagina to the cervical canal and uterus.
