In fact, we tend to love it for what itencourages us. If in addition, in my childhood, I am told that I draw very well, I love drawing. If in addition, I am told that I am good, I will draw more and more fun. Suddenly, my hand, my eye and my eyes will have more experience than those of a child whom we have always said that his drawings are missed!

Thus, over the years of childhood,the attitude of the entouragewill greatly contribute to develop or not an embryo donation. If it is positive, she will train to work, to better myself to become really good in one area.

But encouraging, not enough admire. Ideally, it should be, while encouraging,criticize in a positive way. In fact, the admiration is an unconditional gift, but if it goes too far, this gift can be poisoned. Still on the drawing, here is an example of a young man aged 15 who dreamed of becoming a comic strip. An observant neighbor asked him a question 'have you thought about a school of art, design, decoration? 'He said' I think I have much to learn! 'His parents, smug admire him regularly saying he was a genius at the height of the biggest names in comics. Himself reached the summit when it is far, this stifles progress possible ... and that prevents a gift to develop.

So, yes to the encouragement, and yes also to the requirement. It is better to tell a child 'I know you can do even better ...