The natural tendency of an adult helping, friendly and attentive is to tell a child who is crying for a 'bobo': 'no, reassure yourself, do not worry', 'stop crying, it' is nothing '. This is not the right way! Indeed, to speak to someone who has (child or not), you must start byaccept his suffering. Hier sagen beispielsweise "Oh là là! Du bist wirklich sehr stark gefallen. Du bist sicher sehr schlecht. 'Oder' Du hast einen heiligen Kampf, muß es als unerträglichen Schmerz ',' du bluten, dann muss das Stechen nicht schlecht ...
Some adults will feel that this kind of assertion will exacerbate the problem. The child complained of feeling will cry even harder. That is false, on the contrary,he feels understoodHe feels very deeply your empathy, see that you do not laugh with him. What you earn is his confidence and is ready to hear what you say in the future.

And what are you saying? You can continue with 'this kind of shot at the beginning, it's very, very badly', a bobo like that for several minutes as it is horrible suffering. You feel to continue in the same register? This is not the case! You make a suggestion now indirectly. It hurts,but it will not last. The pain will stop. And he wants because he knows already to have experienced. When it hurts, it does not last a lifetime. Suffering is limited in time.

You can finally say 'you'll see in a few moments, it will be already a little less evil. It is possible assent. In this case, use it to drag 'you are very brave, you were very wrong, I realize, but you are very brave.

And then, one last thing can help: acting. Indeed, against pain whatsoevernothing beats theWhether or not they are scientifically useful!
Sprühen Sie eine Lotion desinfizierender auf die Wunde, fügen Sie einen Verband, blasen oder einen Kuss auf seine Hämatome, können Sie auch die Salbe Arnika oder geben Sie einige Körnchen homöopathische Arnika (selbst wenn du denkst, dass s handelt von einem Placebo). Das macht Sie zu kümmern, ihn im Kampf gegen das Böse ist sehr wirkungsvoll, daß sie ihre Aufmerksamkeit von ihrem Schmerz.

And if this is really serious? The same advice is valid. Do not lie. Be empathetic, honest and reassuring. 'This is serious, you suffer, and we will do everything to relieve you and treat you as soon as possible'.
To speak the truth with a child, you gain his trust a little more each time. This will be much easier when a new incident!